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whitehorn last won the day on December 1 2018
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A Positive Note for the People Who Are Upset
whitehorn replied to whitehorn's topic in The Town Square
Thank you for the advice. Arbiter? It's not my responsibility to deliver anything to anyone. The only "arbiter" of making the world a better place is one's self. Call it ignorant if you like. It's my sincere hope that one day humans will love themselves enough to love other people back, but, in my opinion, that won't happen until people become their own arbiters. -
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whitehorn replied to whitehorn's topic in The Town Square
I'm not really sure if you're trying to paint me in a way that suits your point or tries to make me feel like a bad person. I am not saying that people will agree with me if they look into themselves. I don't need people to agree with me. I'm not trying to obfuscate anything. If they want to find out what I am talking about, I could tell them until I am blue in the face for lack of air, but it's not something that is easily communicated. If it were, the world would be a better place than it is. -
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whitehorn replied to whitehorn's topic in The Town Square
Cool. By the way, I'm not religious. Scripture and gospel is nice sometimes, but I don't care for religion myself. -
whitehorn started following A Positive Note for the People Who Are Upset and What Was Your First Online Multiplayer RPG?
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Advanced Dungeons and Dragons (tabletop) and Red Wurm Inn (MUD). Old old old.
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A Positive Note for the People Who Are Upset
whitehorn replied to whitehorn's topic in The Town Square
Suffice to say that when a person takes the arduous task of knowing themselves, then they will see. And that isn't a riddle. A lot of people don't do it because it is hard work and they fear to face themselves in the mirror. <--- That is a metaphor for seeing their true self. -
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whitehorn replied to whitehorn's topic in The Town Square
They're only riddles if they are not understood. All emotions stem from love. The ability to not feel love is not an emotion, my friend. Some people cannot understand love in this life, to be true, but that is because they haven't been shown what it is. I argue that love is the most accepting emotion, and if someone kills someone I loved, then I will still love that murderer because we are all humans, and every human experience is valid. You can approach emotions through a clinical study, fine, but studies are not fact. They're observations of what have happened on average when studied. The moment a psychologist or doctor says that they know nothing, then I believe that physician to be wisest of all. -
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whitehorn replied to whitehorn's topic in The Town Square
People like to make things complicated, don't they? Life isn't complicated, but some people cannot handle simplicity. All emotions root from love, even fear. There are many ways to respond, yes, but all emotions come out of love because it is the most accepting emotion, while fear is the most divisive. I am glad that there are people that like to complicate things because that is a valid way to experience life, but for me, I choose simplicity because it is also a valid way to experience life. "I know that I know nothing." Socrates was right. -
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whitehorn replied to whitehorn's topic in The Town Square
It's not my field of study, but I do like philosophy. Philosophize enough, and you start to understand the basics of emotions. -
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whitehorn replied to whitehorn's topic in The Town Square
Completely understand and agree. It's sometimes difficult to help a person know where to start with improving their attitude/life. Seems like one generation of kids is extremely entitled and can't be bothered to look inwardly. It's not their fault, though, as very few people know how to look inside effectively. The work to face one's demons is too hard, so they don't do it. They don't want to change or even see that they would benefit from adaptation. It's one reason why I wrote a book on emotions, literally. I hope to bring awareness of the methods to improve oneself once I publish it. -
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whitehorn replied to whitehorn's topic in The Town Square
If I can help do something productive, let me know. I do t have technical skill, but I can help with something I'm sure. Thanks for putting up with the toxic Discord and helping the team. -
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whitehorn replied to whitehorn's topic in The Town Square
1. Feel emotions. 2. Feel logic. 3. Use logic. 4. Be productive. 5. Spread love not fear/hate. That's the TL;DR. -
A Positive Note for the People Who Are Upset
whitehorn replied to whitehorn's topic in The Town Square
Oh? I never saw that movie. I heard it's good though. I did suggest to do something more productive. One could chalk it up to giving money to strangers online for an invisible product/failed investment and move on. Alternatively, one could work to create a class action lawsuit. Complaining is simply not productive. -
There are always only two ways to respond to anything: love (positivity) or fear (negativity). That's it. Let's say you gave someone money in the expectation to receive something back later, something good enough for your expectations. However, they didn't deliver it to your expectations, and you feel emotional about it. You're angry, frustrated, confused, and you feel like you've been made into a victim -- you feel negative. These are all natural ways to feel, but no one should want to stay there for a long time. It would be my suggestion to feel those feelings as much as you can privately. Understand why you are feeling them, and then move on. If you need help in learning how to deal with those negative emotions, it is OK to ask for help. Staying in a negative state is unhealthy for you and for the people you interact with. You are spreading your negativity to others, and you become an agent for fear. Who wants to do that? Who legitimately wants to spend their time spreading fear (negativity) to the people they interact with? Doing so makes the person look like a negative person, and while some positive people may spend their time trying to help such a person, no one can force them to help themselves. The result is that positive people move away from the negative ones, and the negative ones attract to each other and spread more fear. A responsible person checks their emotions at the door when entering into any discussion. Emotions are great tools, but they sometimes make us look bad when we say things that are hateful or things that we shouldn't have said. Complaining about the obvious is not productive. It takes up your time when you could be doing something else more productive and positive. We, as the players, can do nothing to the game to improve it. If you want to play the game in the state you initially expected, support the developers. If you are done, then be done and move on from the forums. While you have a right to be upset, you may wish to spread love around instead of fear. If you do, you may be surprised at how your life changes. Good luck to all of the people who are really upset about this. If you need help, I will listen to you sincerely and offer some advice, if you desire. Just send me a PM. Cheers, and have a great day! TL;DR: 1. Feel emotions. 2. Feel logic. 3. Use logic. 4. Be productive. 5. Spread love not fear/hate.
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We were right, and you can't argue with us anymore.
whitehorn replied to Missmatchgaming's topic in The Town Square
Then my solution for you is give up and think of it a lost cause. It's better done than complaining about it. Spend your time in a more positive and productive way. Life is too short to spend it complaining about things on a public forum. Good luck to you with all sincerity. -
We were right, and you can't argue with us anymore.
whitehorn replied to Missmatchgaming's topic in The Town Square
DLIMIT got you there.